Imperfect Thanksgiving

The holidays are suppose to be a time to spend with family and enjoy the season. My need to be perfect would usually ruin holidays. My kids would be grumpy and I would be stressed just trying to make it perfect. This year is going to […]

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Stop apologizing

  How many times have you apologized for not doing something perfect or it not being up to your standard. What you are really doing is saying “ I’m sorry I’m not perfect”. You are apologizing for being human. We are not perfect and we […]

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Opening my Eyes

I have struggled with perfectionism for as long as I can remember. It got worse after I had my kids. When my daughter was born I had to have her always dressed nice and looking perfect. I always smiled because I wanted everyone to think […]

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Realizing you need help

Asking for help can be hard but realizing that you actually need help is harder.  Nobody wants to admit that they actually need help. We view help as a sign of weakness or failure. As moms and women, we think we should be able to […]

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Is Perfectionism masking fear?

Do you ever have something that you are just really scared of doing? You are afraid you will fail or afraid of what people will think of you. Do you not even start something because you don’t think  you can do it perfectly? Are you […]

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Day in Life

This is a fun post to give you a glimpse into my life. I am always curious to see how other moms schedule their days so I thought it would be fun to show you mine. I also filmed it for my YouTube channel if […]

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Overcoming Perfection

Do you think you have to aim for perfection all the time? Are you driving yourself crazy trying to get everything just right? I understand. I use to be there (and I still catch myself sometimes obsessing about every little detail).

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