Stop apologizing

  How many times have you apologized for not doing something perfect or it not being up to your standard. What you are really doing is saying “ I’m sorry I’m not perfect”. You are apologizing for being human. We are not perfect and we […]

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You are not a burden

I think one of the biggest reasons that we don’t like to ask for help is we don’t want to burden anyone. Others have enough problems without us adding to them.  We don’t want to add more to their plate so we don’t ask.  The […]

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Support each other

Motherhood is hard. Just when you think you have it figured out and everything under control, the kids enter a new stage. As moms we should be helping each other and not judging. Most moms don’t ask for help because they are afraid of being […]

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Expectations of motherhood

When I was pregnant I had this vision in my head of what motherhood would look like. I knew it was going to be wonderful. My baby would be so cute and as she grew we would play together and have so much fun.  Being […]

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Opening my Eyes

I have struggled with perfectionism for as long as I can remember. It got worse after I had my kids. When my daughter was born I had to have her always dressed nice and looking perfect. I always smiled because I wanted everyone to think […]

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Take time to rest

We are all busy. I constantly feel like I am running from one thing to the next and it can be exhausting.  We schedule so many things onto our calendar but do you ever schedule in any rest time? Rest is so important so we […]

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Trying to be Perfect at Everything

I use to be a perfectionist. I would drive myself crazy worrying about every little detail and trying to make everything just right. Not only did I drive myself crazy but I drove everyone around me crazy too. My kids had to have the perfect […]

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Learning to Love Yourself

One of the hardest things to do is to learn to love yourself. With my need to be perfect all the time I never felt I was good enough. I always compared myself to other people who I thought were getting it right. I never […]

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