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When the perfectionist monster comes out

when the perfectionist monster comes out

As a recovering perfectionist I know that buried deep inside me I have a monster waiting to be unleashed.  A monster who thinks everything has to be perfect. Who wants everything just right.  This monster comes out when things are not in order and there is chaos. Unfortunately this monster is not very nice and changes the mood of the house in seconds.

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What is the Perfect Body?

 

what is the perfect body

I always wanted the perfect body. What is the perfect body? Who actually gets to decide that? Just because someone is “skinny” does not mean they are healthy. The same for if someone is overweight, they might be very healthy. My point is being healthy is different for every person. Most people judge healthy by the way you look or that number on the scale but we need to change our way of thinking.

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The three things that make me feel like I have my life together

The three things that make me feel like I have my life together

Most days I try my best to have it together and most days I fail. Once in a while I have an amazing day and figured out it’s when these three things align. I notice that I’m a happier person and I have more patience. I live in the real world though so I can’t get these three things to align all the time but I’m working on it and that’s all that I can do. I know I don’t have to do all three perfectly but as long as I can get them done it usually helps me get through the day.

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What does perfect mean anyway?

What does perfect mean anyway?

I am a perfectionist. My philosophy has always been if I can’t do it perfectly then there’s no point in doing it at all. Boy did I miss out on doing a lot of things. The truth is I’m never perfect. What is perfect? Who decides what perfect is? If we don’t really ever truly know what perfect is then how can we reach it? We can’t and we need to start accepting that.

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