It doesn't have to be perfect as long as it works for you.
I’m a recovering perfectionist trying to enjoy life and let things go. I’m enjoying my new motto that done is better than perfect. I live in upstate New York with my wonderful husband, Morgan, our two beautiful girls ages 16 and 10 and a handsome little man age 5. They are my life and everything I do is for them.
Motherhood is hard. Just when you think you have it figured out and everything under control, the kids enter a new stage. As moms we should be helping each other and not judging. Most moms don’t ask for help because they are afraid of […]
Asking for help: we hate doing it. We are afraid of how others will view us or we think asking for help means that we are not good enough to do it ourselves. Changing our mindsets about asking for help is hard. As perfectionists […]
When I was pregnant I had this vision in my head of what motherhood would look like. I knew it was going to be wonderful. My baby would be so cute and as she grew we would play together and have so much fun. […]
Perfection is different for each person. Each of us handles it differently. What is perfect to one person isn’t to another. There are so many different stories about perfection and how we deal with it. I wanted to share some of them with you. […]
I have struggled with perfectionism for as long as I can remember. It got worse after I had my kids. When my daughter was born she had to always be dressed nice and looking perfect. I always smiled because I wanted everyone to think I […]
Asking for help can be hard but realizing that you actually need help is harder. Nobody wants to admit that they actually need help. We view help as a sign of weakness or failure. As moms and women, we think we should be able […]
Do you ever have something that you are just really scared of doing? You are afraid you will fail or afraid of what people will think of you. Do you not even start something because you don’t think you can do it perfectly? Are […]
Another area in your life that can help with the need for perfection is time management. I know I always feel less than perfect when I forget an event or I’m running late to something. Well time management will not make you perfect it […]
This is a fun post to give you a glimpse into my life. I am always curious to see how other moms schedule their days so I thought it would be fun to show you mine. I also filmed it for my YouTube channel if […]
Do you think you have to aim for perfection all the time? Are you driving yourself crazy trying to get everything just right? I understand. I use to be there (and I still catch myself sometimes obsessing about every little detail).