Imperfect Thanksgiving

The holidays are suppose to be a time to spend with family and enjoy the season. My need to be perfect would usually ruin holidays. My kids would be grumpy and I would be stressed just trying to make it perfect. This year is going to […]

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Stop apologizing

  How many times have you apologized for not doing something perfect or it not being up to your standard. What you are really doing is saying “ I’m sorry I’m not perfect”. You are apologizing for being human. We are not perfect and we […]

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You are not a burden

I think one of the biggest reasons that we don’t like to ask for help is we don’t want to burden anyone. Others have enough problems without us adding to them.  We don’t want to add more to their plate so we don’t ask.  The […]

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Support each other

Motherhood is hard. Just when you think you have it figured out and everything under control, the kids enter a new stage. As moms we should be helping each other and not judging. Most moms don’t ask for help because they are afraid of being […]

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Expectations of motherhood

When I was pregnant I had this vision in my head of what motherhood would look like. I knew it was going to be wonderful. My baby would be so cute and as she grew we would play together and have so much fun.  Being […]

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Opening my Eyes

I have struggled with perfectionism for as long as I can remember. It got worse after I had my kids. When my daughter was born I had to have her always dressed nice and looking perfect. I always smiled because I wanted everyone to think […]

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